Non-violent conflict resolution can help reduce violence in Milwaukee.
Every opinion counts!
The use of generalizations is better than the use of stereotypes.
Stereotypes are hurtful.
The media can be misleading. Pictures can be taken out of context.
Table 2:
We learned how to make generalizations without stereotyping.
We made a skit about violence in our community.
The media often portrays teens as negative and destructive instead of positive and uplifting. Teens in Milwaukee are not always the center of our city’s violence.
Table 3:
The media chooses what they air based on what they think we want to see.
Stereotyping is a cause of a conflict that can lead to violence.
The fist is not the solution.
Look at the world in a different perspective.
The content of newspapers are regulated so they can exercise their power to present whatever information they want.
Using an “I message” is a respectful way to show how you feel. Also it gives you a win-win outcome.
Think about how other people feel about a situation.
Table 4:
There are pros and cons of media framing, depending on the focus.
We used “Frame It” handouts to experiment with the pros and cons.
We discovered that framing only part of the scene can be misleading or misinterpreted.
Table 5:
(1) Generalizations are less offensive than stereotypes.
Example of a stereotype: All African Americans eat chicken.
Example of a generalization: Many African Americans prefer chicken.
(2) An alternative to violence is conflict resolution, by careful talking and careful listening to solve problems. Four Steps:
I feel (state your feeling)
When you (Describe the behavior)
Because then (explain the situation)
And what I want is… (say what you want)
Table 6:
Stereotypes cause division.
“Everything” on TV is not always the “truth.”
Media uses sex for advertisement.
Media uses bandwagon to sell their product.
Media can be positive or negative, depending on the creator.
Communication is key!
Table 7:
Violence is not the way. Find another way to solve your problems.
Table 8:
We learned how to communicate with others.
Media is organized to gain profit and power.
We learned different ways to solve violence.
Table 9:
Violence is real, but doesn’t have to be.
Violence is an effective way to make NO PROGRESS.
Media is what you make of it.
Table 10:
Media Portrayal
Media creates stereotypes which cause barriers among different cultures.
These stereotypes usually are portrayed as violent, thus leading to more violence.
Table 11:
(1) In order to express myself, I use:
I feel…
When you…
Because then…
And what I want is…
(2) Personal stories can have a large impact on other people.
(3) The media can portray people in good and bad ways.
Table 12:
Consider the context.
Stereotypes are statements about a group of people that might be based on an untrue or true statement.
All media messages are constructed.
Different people experience the same media message differently.
Table 13: We Learned…
How to solve problems in a peaceful manner.
To be kind to others even when it’s difficult.
No matter how you frame things, you can never know everything.
Don’t be so quick to judge others.
Don’t believe everything you hear, read or watch.
Table 14:
What power do you have as a consumer to influence the news?
(Jump off some cliff? Go jump off! You’ll feel better! Jump off! It’s fun! Do it! Do it!)
Maybe I should be a non conformist!
Table 15:
Stereotypes can be hurtful.Generalizations can inform us and be useful.
Media is constructed.
We at Table 15 have some great actors.
Table 16:
It starts with us!
Media messages are created by people who have an agenda to sell either a product or an idea.
Stereotypes and generalizations are not the same.
Don’t just base your thoughts off stereotypes, but use generalizations to learn.
Every view of an advertisement is different.
How to get to “win-win” is through careful talking and careful listening
The media often cuts out the little things that go on in an event.
Table 17:
Different people interpret the same situations differently.
For conflicts to be solved peacefully, people need to feel that needs are met.
Media is neither positive nor negative.
Youth must look at the media with a critical eye.
“If you lose your eyes to reality, then you simply invite your own destruction.”
Table 18:
There are many alternatives other than violence.
Express your feelings in a respectful manner.
Use Careful Talking, “I feel… messages”
Use Careful Listening, “I hear you saying…”
Use generalizations instead of stereotypes.
All media messages are “constructed.”
Media has a capability of framing things and making things seem a certain way.
Teens can make a difference.
Table 19:
The media are constructed.
The media are flexible with what is shown to attract more attention.
Different people se the same message differently.
Most media are organized to gain more money and power.
Win-win is when both sides can win in a conflict.
Table 20:
Stereotypes are offensive, Generalizations are helpful.
Careful talking and careful listening solves conflicts without violence.
Media messages are constructed.
What is violence? Guns, gangs, drugs, etc.
Table 21:
(1) Frame it! By using a paper with a cut out lens of a camera, we learned to see things in a different perspective.
(2) Stereotypes vs. Generalizations:
Stereotypes limit our perspective of a group of people.
Generalizations expand our perspective of a group of people.
(3) The World in 22 minutes: We learned how to make the right decisions about what stories to include and in what order.
Table 22:
As peers, we have shared an open dialog about media and violence. We have learned we all have similar views on the subject.
Dr. Calderone-Stewart has authored 20 books and more than 50 articles.
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